Tips on Dating More Than one Person at a Time

If you are considering dating more than one person at the same time, then you will want to read this article to discover the do’s and don’ts of this style of dating.  Without debating issues of morals or other social ideas centered around the right or wrong of it, this article will simple look at considerations for those who have decided they want to go this route in their dating life.

Don’t Feel Guilty

Let’s assume that you have already decided that you want to try dating more than one person. The first thing you will want to do is evaluate if you can do it guilt free. If you feel worried or bad all the time then this is not the right choice for you. If however, you feel it is ok, then go for it.

Do Erase The Evidence

Hopefully you are not being a total loser by misleading those you’re dating into thinking you are only dating them, but you should not leave obvious evidence of the others you are dating, laying around. Even if the one you are with tonight understands the two of you are not exclusive, it is still bad taste to leave items around that show you have been with others recently.

Don’t Volunteer Information

You should not lie about what you are doing, but you should never just volunteer information either. If you are confronted directly about your activities, be honest, but only answer what was asked about and nothing more. If you are dating more than one person, you do not want the drama of some jealous person messing up what you have with others, so if they can’t handle it, then break clean from that relationship and continue with the others.

Do Keep A Calendar

One of the worst things that can happen is that you schedule to go on a date with more than one person on the same day and at the same time. Even more terrible is if you arrange to meet them both at the same place. To prevent this you need to keep a calendar. Set up a Google alert or whatever you have to do, but make certain your dates are not together.

Don’t Develop Strong Feelings

Once you find someone that is right for you, then you should cut the others off. If you are not interested in a one to one relationship then you should control your feelings and not allow them to develop past liking the other person.

If you keep to these do’s and don’ts you can have your cake and eat it too.